Making the Most of a Difficult Time

To show respect for the family, it's important to know what religious, ethnic or personal considerations you need to take into account at a funeral service.

Funeral Etiquette

The accepted customs of dress and behavior at a funeral have changed over time, but courtesy never goes out of style. Here’s everything you need to know about funeral etiquette.

  • Offer an expression of sympathy.
  • Find out the dress code.
  • Give a gift such as flowers, a gift basket or a charity donation.
  • Sign the register book.
  • Keep in touch with the family after the service.
  • Don't be afraid to laugh and remember the good times.
  • Don't feel you have to view the deceased if there is an open casket.
  • Don't leave your cell phone on.
  • Invite your children, but don't allow them to be a disturbance.

Cemetery Etiquette

A cemetery is a unique place. It is a place where tranquility and quiet are the desired norm. Here’s everything you need to know about cemetery etiquette.

  • Be respectful - don't play loud music in your car or keep your cell phone on.
  • Keep children from running, yelling, or playing around the monuments.
  • Don't walk over or touch any monuments or gravestones.
  • Follow the cemetery's guidelines for decorations and flowers.
  • Try not to visit the cemetery after dark. Most are open dawn to dusk.
  • Please don't litter.
  • If you bring pets, keep them on a leash and clean up after them.
  • Follow the cemetery roadways, drive slowly, and obey any traffic signs.
  • Respect the privacy of other cemetery visitors.
  • Don't take photos of other people or other services.